Archive for the ‘personal issues’ Category

An expert says…

Thursday, May 15th, 2008

If an expert says get away from that man, then listen to what she has to say. She is called an expert for a reason. This is my advice to fellow single women who are into dating like me. Relationship expert Stephany Alexander’s women’s date screening service, WomanSavers.com is the World’s Largest Database Rating Men targeting abusive and cheating men. Dating and Relationship Expert Stephany Alexander’s goal is to change the way the next generation of women deal with men by networking together to share their stories to bring the good guys to the top and the bad to the bottom. Women can “research and rate BEFORE they date” to make better, safer and more informed decisions to protect themselves, their families and what they value. Sounds reasonable, right?

You don’t want to be fooled by the jerks dressed in sheep’s skin out there I am sure. I don’t. I have encountered men like these one time too many. And now I would like to listen to a dating expert tell me what to avoid so I can avoid it. Girl friends, I encourage you to be vigilant when it comes to men and abuse. Let us speak up when needed. No need to tolerate men who do not know the value of women. If you are dating, be sure to read WomanSavers.com and be saved from evil men out there.

Go and check out the site now. I suggest you read what Stephany Alexander has to say. She is the expert, remember that.

I must travel!

Thursday, August 16th, 2007


I love traveling to different places. And I would love to explore places I’ve never been to. The only hindrance is funds. Oh well…

Soon. I can feel it :)

What is wrong with my memory!!!

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

I just came back from the bank. Going there, I saw someone I know. But I can’t remember her name so I just looked away. And then going back to the office, I saw four more people that I know. I still can’t remember their names!!!

Darn it!

One of them even stopped and looked at me, probably expecting me to greet him. Aargh! I can’t remember his name.

Is this memory gap? Hahahahah

*****

With regards to my previous post, I am okay now. Bahala na lang siya if he does not want to speak to me. Life is like that.

Growing old…

Tuesday, July 17th, 2007

I don’t like Friendster that much. I get into this rollercoaster ride whenever I open it. Happy and sad and envious and mad at myself for being envious… Hay…

I saw a friend’s account. She got married already pala. I was not invited! Hehehe… Okay lang. We had a falling out a couple of years back. Forgive and forget. The friendship was already broken and there’s a gap as wide as the ocean that we can never bridge again. I just felt sad and depressed. It was partly my fault that our friendship was broken. And she was a good friend. Until that falling out. Depressed the hell out of me when I viewed her wedding photos.

I saw another former friend’s account. Eto yung kasangga ko back in college until my early years of being an accountant. She’s still single like me. There’s just one pic that I saw that made me recall all the good days back when we’re reviewing for the board exams. Made me teary-eyed.

From the time I viewed all those photos until now, I’m still feeling down. I miss them. I miss the old days.

These are sure signs of growing old. It’ll be my 29th birthday on August 3. I started getting old when I was 12. So indulge me when I say that I might be undergoing a midlife crisis soon.

Melancholy…

Friday, July 13th, 2007

Lately, I’ve been feeling down again. It may be caused by the gloomy weather. It may be caused by the songs I’ve been listening to. It may be caused by exhaustion, from making money online. It may be caused by a lot of things. I don’t really know.

Priorities

Wednesday, July 11th, 2007

Time and again, I find myself struggling. My sister put it aptly… I don’t really know my priorities. Much to my chagrin, she is right. And now I am asking myself, what really are my priorities anyway?

My heart and mind has only one answer… My main and foremost priority in life is to be happy and contented. That’s it! I need not be rich. I need not be sexy or beautiful. All I need is happiness and contentment in life and I would die a happy girl.

What will make me happy and content in life, you’d ask.

Seeing my family happy, healthy and financially stable. Writing to my heart’s content and not doing accounting work. Not rushing to work in the morning. Not worrying about our family’s finances. Being able to travel and truly relax.

With that said, I do have my priorities. It’s just that most of the time, I lose my focus. 95% of the time, I get lost.

I am given a wake up call last night.

Thank you.